Are you a hard task master?

My partner and I went for marriage counselling. The counsellor looked at me and said “You’re a hard task master. You’re extremely hard on yourself. I believe you were advised at the beginning to rest everyday. It’s important you start doing that.” My eldest child is 11. So 11 years ago I was given the…

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It’s a trust thing

There’d been an issue of trust in the relationship — not of the cheating kind, I’ve always trusted him in that way. It had more to do with hurt feelings. I had never really felt supported by him, in different areas of life. What I realise now is that the issue of trust began with…

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